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  • Started 1 year ago by philiphickey
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  1. We've got two laptops to give away for the best contributors of the following three Forum Topics

    1.“The School Forum” Setup for all school goers in the Dublin 10 area, talk to us about your Educational life , your exam fears or triumphs , your hopes and dreams for the future and maybe if there is somebody who encourages you that deserves a mention. There will be specialised Leaving Cert Forum areas also plus others upon request

    2.“The Ballyfermot Forum” setup for all of the General Public who live and/or work in the area, tell us about your experience’s and what could be improved upon to encourage business/ facilities/ transport/ life in the area

    3.“The Over 55’s Forum” setup for all of the people who want to talk about their needs/lives/wants or just want to reach out to connect, make new friends and talk with people in Ballyfermot

    So if you start now you've got a great chance and all you need to do is just sign up for a username here http://forums.ballyfermot.ie/register.php to start you Forum entries in your chosen topics!

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    Key Master

    This is where you should start posting for the above topic, have fun and should you have problems of any nature then please contact/mail the Forum Moderator at 01-6260734 or philiphickey@ballyfermot.ie

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  3. admin
    Key Master

    Happy Christmas Everyone!

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  4. Surviving the past 60 years

    First, we survived being born to mothers who smoked and/or drank while they carried us, took aspirin. Our baby cribs were covered with bright colour lead-based paints and we had no childproof lids, doors or cabinets and when we rode our bikes, we had no helmets and took risks hitchhiking.
    We would ride in cars with no seat belts or air bags and we drank water from the garden hose and NOT from a bottle.
    We shared our drink and chewing gum with friends and never worried if it fell on the ground.
    We ate white bread, real butter and sugar by the spoonful, but we weren't overweight because WE WERE ALWAYS OUTSIDE PLAYING!
    We would leave home in the morning and play all day, No one was able to reach us by mobile phone and we were O.K. We spent hours building go-carts with scraps and then ride down hill, only to find the brakes didn’t work. After running into a few bushes, we learned how to solve the problem.
    We didn’t have a Playstation, Nintendo's, X-boxes, no video games, no 99 TV channels , no video tape movies, no surround sound, no cell phones, no PCs, no Internet , Bebo or chat rooms. WE HAD PLENYT OF FRIENDS and we found them outside.
    We fell out of trees, got cut, broke bones and teeth and there were no lawsuits from these accidents. We made up games with sticks and stones and we did not put out very many eyes.

    We rode bikes or walked to a friend's house and not everyone made the football team. Those who didn't had to learn to deal with disappointment. Imagine that!!
    We had freedom, failure, success and responsibility, and we learned HOW TO DEAL WITH IT ALL!
    And YOU are one of them! CONGRATULATIONS!

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  5. This story is good and it is a honor for it to be here to know about what a childs life was like in back then ,but the only thing is i would say its a good story, but i read the same story somewhere else. http://jjpath.blogspot.com/2006_08_01_archive.html but i think he also copied it because i found the story on an earlier website from 2004 this is the story i found its nearly the same but you have some suttle changes TO ALL THE KIDS WHO SURVIVED the 30's, 40's, 50's, 60's and 70's !!

    We survived being born to mothers who smoked and/or drank while they were pregnant. They took aspirin, ate blue cheese dressing, tuna from a can, and didn't get tested for diabetes.

    Then after that trauma, we were put to sleep on our tummies in baby cribs covered with bright colored lead-based paints.

    We had no childproof caps on medicine bottles, doors or cabinets

    When we rode our bikes, we had no helmets, not to mention, the risks we took hitchhiking.

    As infants & children, we would ride in cars with no car seats, booster seats, seat belts or air bags.

    Riding in the back of a pick-up on a warm day was always a special treat.

    We drank water from the garden hose and NOT from a bottle.

    We shared one soft drink with four friends, from one bottle and NO ONE actually died from this, although according to Jorie Ledesma, the last remaining mouthful in the bottle was 100% spit!

    We ate cupcakes, white bread and real butter and drank Kool-Aid made with sugar, but we weren't overweight because WE WERE ALWAYS OUTSIDE PLAYING !

    We would leave home in the morning and play all day, as long as we were back when the streetlights came on. No one was able to reach us all day. And we were O.K.

    We would spend hours building our go-carts out of scraps and then ride down the hill, only to find out we forgot the brakes. After running into the bushes a few times, we learned to solve the problem.

    We did not have Playstations, Nintendo's, X-boxes, no video games at all (except Pong), no 450 channels on cable, no video movies or DVD's, no surround-sound or CD's, no cell phones, no personal computers, no Internet or chat rooms..........

    WE HAD FRIENDS and we went outside and found them!

    We fell out of trees, got cut, broke bones and teeth and there were no lawsuits from these accidents.

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  6. But many people went through those times and i dont accuse you as copying and i will forward this on to many peaple this story is an insperation to the youths of Ballyfermot and the world.You are right your message is clear we take advantage of the things we have.

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  7. Your right i did copy the last Blog but I taught it was very good.
    This is what i remember of growing up in Ballyfermot in the 50s

    Growing Up in the 50s

    We’d have starved if we’d been vegetarians in the fifties. We weren’t fussy eaters, we licked our plates clean of nourishing dinners made with potatoes and fresh vegetables from our front garden.
    Our meat was Pig’s feet, Pig’s head, Cow’s tongue, or stuffed Cow and Sheep’s heart. It was a treat to get rib steak, rabbits, streaky rashers, and chicken.

    Our desserts were jelly and custard or if someone boxed an orchard, (robbed) we’d devour the bitter apples cooked in the open fire and dipped in sugar or toffee apples dipped into the hot toffee we made by cooking butter and sugar on the frying pan.

    On Sunday we’d help to make apple tarts and scones and we’d fight over who got the most skins and butts of the cooking apples to eat.

    We loved waiting day, (Payday) instead of a dinner mammy mixed currants or raisins with rice, semolina, or tapioca and cooked it in a large roosting dish in the oven.
    We never had fish fingers or chicken nuggets, our fish was full of bones, or we got cods roe (Fish eggs) and tripe (The stomach lining of a cow).

    At Easter Mammy told us “The sun will dance in the sky in the morning ” Although I’d get up early and gawk out the window waiting for it to dance, it never danced for me. However, we loved our hard-boiled Easter eggs decorated with happy coloured faces. Only snobs got chocolate eggs wrapped in silver paper.

    Children loved the silver paper and if I got a piece of silver paper, I’d rub in with my fingers until the creases were flattened out, then I’d put it into a book and swap it with my friends.
    Our house was like a zoo whenever our two cats gave birth to six kittens each and about the same time as our dog had four pups. The cats were put outside at night, but they’d climb up the wall of the house and as soon as we heard them crying outside our bedroom window, we let them in and hide them under the covers of our bed.

    To buy shoes, clothes, pots and bedclothes, Mammy got checks from the Checkman, not like today’s checks they had to be exchanged particular shops. However, she’d never let-on to my Dad she got anything on the never, never. (Pay weekly). If he was home when the collector was expected to call, she’d wrap his money in newspaper and then she’d sit in the bedroom window keeping nix. (Lookout) As soon as she’d spot the collector coming through the gate, she’d drop the money down to him.

    Monday was rent day and the majority of people in ballyfermot went to the pawn to get their rent money. You’d see them running for the bus with brown paper parcels, tied up with twine under their arm. The bus conductor knew the people with the parcels were going the Pawn, so he’d shout out, “Next stop Winetavern Street.”

    On the way home mammy would walk up to St Catherine’s Bakery and buy the pervious days bread at a reduced price. Saturday morning, she’d get our clothes back out for Sunday mass and on Monday they were back to the pawn. Not talking about the design the joke was, “Have you got a coat, that goes in and out?”

    Our systems were cleaned out once a month with a disgusting senna drink and to kill the taste we got two spoonfuls of sugar. After the toilet rush, our systems were clean but it’s a miracle we’d any teeth.

    We spent most of the long hot summer days catching bees in Jam-Jars. The minuet a bee landed on a flower, we'd open the lid and trap the bee and the flower inside. Our jars were often packed with bumblebees, sugar bees, footballers, red-arse and wasps, but what was fun to us was cruel to the poor bees because they died very quickly.

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  8. admin
    Key Master

    Original content is always valued more highly in this competition, but still its a good piece worthy of discussion

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  9. Agreed, its very poetic and inspirational words to have on the local website.

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  10. Here here, excellent stuff that LOL

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  11. I am loving this site as being reared in Ballyfermot it brings back a lot of memories.

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  12. Hey Kay, lets be having those lovely memories before they fade away and they are very entertaining indeed

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  13. In 1948, the corporation offered my parents a new house in Ballyfermot. The news delighted Ma, but the Da wasn’t keen on the idea and grumbled, “Ballyfermot is out in the sticks and it is too far from the inner city.” But Ma persuaded him to take the house, because it was a tight squeeze in the cottage in Summerhill with eight children and a new baby.

    We were all very excited about moving into our big clean new house on Thomond Rd. Our furniture arrived on a big truck and we all helped to carry all our bits and pieces into the house.

    Upstairs we had three bedrooms and downstairs there was a large sitting room, small kitchen, bathroom and an outdoor toilet and our very own back and front garden. We shouted, “I’ll bags this bedroom.” Ma gave the boys the biggest bedroom because they were older.

    There were acres of fields with trees to climb and ponds to explore in the Californian Hills. We had the Memorial and Phoenix Parks on our doorstep. There appeared to be millions of kids playing around on the roads shouting and playing games. I thought “Was I go’na enjoy me self or what”? (At the time Bally’er was called Little Korea, because the war was on in Korea at the time.)

    There were no houses built from Kylemore Rd to Cherry Orchard and it was a boy’s paradise to play war games in the trenches. (foundations of the new houses). We spent hours playing cowboys and Indians with our homemade guns and bow and arrows.

    We made gats (slings) with the fork of a tree branch and a piece of rubber from a old bicycle tube. When we put a stone into our gats and we got a big trill to aim our gats at cats and dogs, bird’s or even at each other.

    It was around this time I remember seeing Guinness’s horses pulling huge big carts full of beer barrels up Stephens Lane. One horse pulled the cart, but when the cart got to the end of the hill they had to yoke up another horse to pull the load up the hill. The horses in the Budweiser Christmas ad remind me of the Guinness horses.

    Although we were warned about the dangers of scutting, every kid scutted busses and lorries. (Holding onto the back) If the driver caught us he jumped out of his cab and gave us a clout on the ears. We wouldn’t tell our parents because we’d get another clout for scutting and another clout because scutting wore out the toes out of our shoes.

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  14. The Gangs of Ballyfermot:

    Not long after we moved to Ballyfermot, all the kids formed into gangs. Each gang member was called after the road they lived on. Our house was between Thomond and Muskerry Rd, so I joined the Muskerry gang. When our gang assembled on our road, the gang leader shouted out our meeting call “Uh!! Ah’ ‘Uh!! Ah’ All the gang.” Then we’d run and attack the other gangs on their roads. Although we had enormous fistfights and wrestled with each other, I never remember anyone getting badly hurt.

    My best friends were John Caffry, Barreler Flynn, Tony and Tucker Eccles, Vincent Nolan, Leo Delaney and Thomas Sherry.
    At the time, the Corporation stored building material in Markievicz Park on Garyowen Road. But as soon as the builders moved out, we used the field for playing games and football. Now Markievicz Park has two football pitches, clubhouse and playground. It has a full time warden living in the grounds who keeps it very nicely landscaped.

    The first person to train the children of Ballyfermot how to play football and hurling was a man called Mr Flynn who lived on Garyowen Rd. My team called Garyowen Road won the Ballyfermot Road league around 1955. MY Aunty Mary bought me my first pair of football boots. I used to rub dripping into them to make them waterproof, but my studs wore out in no time from playing football on the road.

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  15. Did you enjoy life back then or now.It seems you went through many adventures in the past.

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  16. Kay, thats great, I mean you're quite a storyteller and you tell it beautifully. My Parents moved in too a flea infested 2 bedroom council house that my Dad had to strip to swimming nicks and cover himself in Vaseline or somesuch and attack the house in a clean up of filthy matress's and hoppers that squatters had left behind and as he used to say "yahoo" the job was done and along came ten kids. God bless you my dad Joseph "Tony" Hickey

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  17. These are stories i did in a book I wrote only for our family and friends ( A Journey In Our Lives) so my children and grandchildren can see the way it was when my husband john and myself were growing up in Ballyfermot in the 50s

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  18. Pound, Punt, Euro, Penny, Pence and Cents
    When we were children, the currency was pounds, shillings and pence. In our lifetime we had to deal with three different currencies. The first Irish coins that were minted in 1921 were a Ha’penny, (Make) Penny (Wing) Three pence coin (Thruppeny bit,) Sixpence, (Tanner) Shilling, (Bob) Two shillings, (Two Bob)
    A half a crown coin (Half a dollar) was worth two shillings and six pence =30 single penny’s = 12½ pence = 10 cents.
    The notes, Ten-shillings, One Pound, Five, Ten, Twenty, Fifty and a One hundred pound note. There were twelve pennies in one shilling and two hundred and forty pennies in a pound.
    We changed to decimals in 1970
    The coins were 1p, 2p, 5p, 10p 20p, 50p and the notes One Pound, Five, Ten, Twenty, Fifty and One Hundred. Later they added a one-pound coin. Feb 1970 the 50p coin was introduced in Ireland.
    In January 2002 we changed to Euros. My Granda Ellis never converted to decimals, he made up his bookies bets in old pounds and he transferred his winnings to punts. He never got a chance to put on a Euro bet because he passed away in Feb. 2002
    God help you when we get confused in our old age and we start asking for our money. I wonder will we ask for Pounds, Punts, or Euros. Ha! Ha!

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  19. Free Picnic:
    One day our parents were going to a wedding. Weddings were held early in the day, so Mammy prepared our dinner before they left. They left my sister in charge and they also asked our next-door neighbour to keep an eye on us. But they were only out the door when we took the bedclothes off the beds and made tents with the sheets and broom handles in the back garden.

    We held a concert in our tent and we collected a penny from every kid as an entrance fee. We bought sweets with the money and every kid who danced or sang, got a lolly or a sweet. When the concert was over and we’d sucked our last Nancy ball (sweets) we played cowboys and Indians in our wigwams.

    Then we held a big picnic for everyone with the food that Mammy had prepared befor she left. At the end of a tremendous day, we put the bed clothes back onto the beds.

    But when my parents arrived home, our very good neighbour spilled the beans and we were bashed and bashed by our parents.
    I think my Mammy was more mortified because our naighbours would have seen the flea shit marks on our sheet Everyone we had fleas no one admitted it.But now everyone knew we had fleas.

    Because my eldest sister was in charge, she got most of the blame. Fin ran upstairs and locked herself in the bathroom to avoid getting any more clatters.

    Oh! This annoyed Mammy more and she told me to knock at the door and say, “its okay to come out Mammy’s gone to the shops.”I must have sounded very convincing because Fin unlocked the door. But she only had her head out the door, when Mammy grabbed hold of her long ringlets. My sister was fuming and warned me, “You little sneak! I’ll get me own back on ye.”
    My Dad very seldom hit me, but the two eldest got his belt on several occasions, they’d jeer me and say, “you’re his pet” I recall after a row with my Dad My Mammy told us that she was leaving him. She got the four others ready, but she told me “you can stay with him, you’re his pet.” However I was delighted when she had a change of heart and stayed. Although this seams awful i had a very happy childhood and children today could not cope with it, as it was a very smple way of life.

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  20. If you could send a sample of your book in pdf to phickey@ballyfermotitcentre.com or in word format I can put it on the homepage of ballyfermot.ie for you if you wish
    Everybody can avail of this free service who's reading this

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  21. Thanks but I have left out most of the names in these stories as theres a lot of personal family details ie dates of birth, addresses etc,and photos in the book that some members of our familys may not wish to be on the web. But I will from time to time add them to my blog

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  22. I'd say when you have your blog started it will be an interesting and historical read about rare ole times in Ballyfermot. I can't wait to see it.

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  23. Yes its up and running right now, i've posted a comment on it and maybe Kay can let me know if it got through to her yet

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  24. Yes thanks I got your message. My blog has started but it took me a while to get it up and running. but I'll get there thanks for the comments.
    How do i add a photo to a blog or can it be done
    Kay

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  25. Just click on the add media button on the top of the tool bar and add a photo by a web URL or upload one from your hard drive. Once that is done the photo will be saved in your gallery and just click the insert to blog button to add it.

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  26. Couldn't have said it better myself, cheers Darren and dont forget to approve and publish your comments as to show all your readers what people think of your work and to encourage them to do the same

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  27. Thanks i'm getting there

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  28. Who Says They Were The Good Old Days?

    When we were growing up we had freedom that children haven’t got today, we were more innocent as children, but we very quickly became mature independent adults as soon as we started work.
    Most children in the 40s & 50s started work when they were thirteen or fourteen they married young and were expected to stay at home and rear large families.
    Most of them worked in factories and as domestic servants for a fraction of a mans wages and very few of them had a career outside their home.
    Women had very few rights and were often treated as second-class citizens and only a small percent recived second or third level education. But generally women had many social skills and were able to knit, sew, darn socks and cook very good wholesome meals with only a few ingredients.

    The most popular careers were nurses, teachers, or the civil service.

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  29. Making Dud Money: Inthe 50s Everyone had a big cast iron gas cooker that was operated by a one shilling coin meter. When the gas ran out and my Mammy hadn’t any money, she’d cut the shape of a coin out of Lino or cardboard and use it the meter instead of a coin.

    But she always got very anxious when the Gas collector was due to collect the money from the meter. Because she’d know the meter was short and if she hadn’t the money to makeup the shortage our gas was cut off. Then she had to cook our all our meals and heat water on the open fire.

    If there was money was over in the meter she received a rebate and she might buy herself five Woodbines and we’d get a small treat. Sometimes a dud coin stuck in the meter and it took days before the Gas Company came out to fix it.

    So that our visitor’s wouldn’t see our blackened pots and pans, Mammy always brought them into the parlour gave them tea in her best China cups.

    The fire was our barbeque and toaster. It had two small hobs that swung in and out for resting pots on. I can still recall the smell of tea stewing. We used to stick the poker into potatoes and crab apples and cooked them in the fire. We devoured the black burnt skins of the potatoes and hot crab apples dipped in sugar.

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  30. Hi I have put a link to this site to my Bebo site so you should get a few more bloggers

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